Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Time Goes Fast!

Its been so busy lately. I almost forgot to update the post. There has been so much going on lately that I will try to go back in time and update summarize it all.

I have been traveling still (going to South Dakota a lot and even got back to North Dakota for a week).

Cole has been super busy with the traveling basketball. Practice, practice, practice with tourneys on the weekends. His schedule keeps him hopping for sure and fills all of our extra time. But it is fun to see him with a new group of friends and playing at a new level. He also has been taking electric guitar lessons since the start of the school year. He loves it! He is also getting good.

Kennedy has been continuing with her dance lessons and simply loves every minute of it. She loves getting dressed up and practicing for the Christmas pageant and the big Spring Concert. She is also very much in the Christmas spirit. She loves wrapping presents and making Christmas cards for everyone and anyone. She can't wait for her school days and excels there. Her reading is getting even better everyday. Her world is wide open now that she can decipher the new words all around her. She is so bright (I know I am biased).

Jake is our sweet little boy. He is still our little thoughtful helper. If anyone sneezes in the house he is right there to make sure to tell them "bless you". Also if he sneezes and there is not an immediate "bless you" he is sure to let you know. He is so very helpful. He is arguably one of the best laundry folders in the house. He folds the towels perfectly and helps to sort the laundry. It is amazing how accurate he is. He is always willing and eager to help with any chore. His cheery disposition and sweet, gentle heart is the most wonderful part of Jake. Other than "forcing" him to do the hard work at home, he loves to color, draw and practice his letters (can you tell he hangs around Kennedy the teacher). He also loves sports. All sports. He shoots basketball on his hoop in the playroom and has gotten to be quite the shooter. Some times he will take off his shirt and play hoops. On Sundays I will ask him what day is it and he replies "Game day!" He will sit with me and watch the Titans play (usually for a quarter or so before he needs to go get a football, or go shoot hoops). It is fun to see him turn into his own little man. On the days that I am fortunate to be home (Kennedy and Cole are at school) Jake and I just hang out and spend time together. It is so nice for him to have that time with me alone and for him to show his own personality.

De has been SUPER busy. With all the busy hustle and bustle of our family schedule and me not being home every week she often carries the load. Fortunately she is the most organized person I know. I do feel fortunate for the times I am able to be home to help out and give her a break. I am looking forward to Christmas week (I was able to take off work).

I will try to update this blog and tell you more about Coles last tourney and post some pictures. I will also update about Kennedy's Christmas pageant with pictures. So check back or follow this blog by clicking on the subscribe/follow button.

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Power of Prayer

Two weeks before Thanksgiving I was making some soup stock for homemade wonton soup. It was just me and Jake at home. Kennedy and Cole was at school and De at work. We were enjoying the day and just decided a nice pot of hot soup would be great. While I was simmering the stock I had run to the grocery store for the wonton wrappers and ground pork. So this little grocery run put me behind a bit and I was starting to get a tight on time. After making other trips to pick up the kids from school, I continued with the soup.

I pulled the meat out of the stock pot and strained the broth (twice). I then pulled the pork off the bone and set aside for supper. De was going to mix with some barbeque sauce and make some barbeque pork sandwiches. While she was preparing the BBQ pork I started to mix up the ground pork for the wontons. So I slipped off my rings and placed them on the counter. It was pretty chaotic as I tried to finish the soup and De was feeding the kids. We finally finished supper and everyone started to clean up the kitchen. We loaded the dishwasher, washed the counters and I grabbed the heaping garbage bag and took it out to the garage. Finally everything was clean again.

As I reached to grab my rings to put them back on I only found my wedding ring. The other ring (a ring that De had bought me when we were dating when I was 19) was not next to my wedding ring. I asked De if she saw it laying around. She hadn't. I then asked the kids if they knew where Daddy's ring was and they also had no idea. So the hunt was on!

I started looking on all over the floor while De looked all over the countertops. The kids helped looking around. We looked in the sinks, on the rug, under the rug, in the dishwasher, everywhere! Nothing. I then thought maybe it accidentally got knocked into the garbage. The heaping full bag of trash that I just took out to the street. I brought it back into the house and started to take every single item out of the slimey trash bag and put it into a new trash bag. I sifted through coffee grinds, pork bones, wrappers, vegetable scraps and all the other usual trash can occupants. Nothing. We were bewildered. We continued to look for another hour with no success.

I started to get nervous and my heart sank. I was resigned to the fact that it was gone. I had no idea how it went missing or where it went. It wasnt an expensive ring but De had given me that ring nearly 20 years ago. I just felt a sadness.

It was now time for the kids to go to bed and I took Jake upstairs to read his bedtime story and De came up and reminded me to pray to St Anthony. As I was growing up, my Mom would tell us kids to pray to St Anthony whenever we had lost something. She explained that St Anthony was the Patron saint of lost or stolen articles. She firmly believed that this would always work and it always did. It sometimes took a while but we would always find our lost object. De was introduced to our family's "Top Secret" tool for locating lost items when we were dating and soon became a believer. So I lay beside my little buddy and after I read him his book he and I said a little prayer to St Anthony to help us find my lost ring.

A week passed and my brother Darrin was visiting during a business trip. I usually try to make a special supper for him when he visits. I made baby back ribs, baked pototoes and tossed salad. We ate supper really fast and had to run because I had to help with Cole's basketball practice. I apologized to De about just eating and leaving the mess to clean up. Darrin decided to tag along to the practice to watch Cole's practice.

After a long practice we got home and decided to watch a little TV. I went up to the kitchen to grab a glass of water and when I was reaching to grab a glass I noticed my ring sitting on the back legde of the the backsplash. I exclaimed "De I found my ring!" She laughed and said "Are you kidding?" I reassured her that I wasnt kidding. She asked me again if I was kidding and looked at me suspiciously. I again told her no and showed her the ring. She thought that I had already found the ring and was playing a joke on her. I told her that this was the first time that I have seen the ring since I the day I lost it. She then told me that when we left for basketball practice she was putting everything away and when she grabbed the BBQ sauce and was trying to snap the cover back on it did not close. Upon closer inspection she saw my ring sitting on top of the lid covered in BBQ sauce! How the heck did the ring ever get there? How lucky is it that De actually saw it on the cover after over a week? Once again St Anthony came through and our prayer had been answered.

Saturday, November 22, 2008

Basketball Weekend

Cole's traveling basketball team was in another tournament this weekend. We traveled to Coon Rapids for a bracketed tourney. We started on Saturday with our first game of the weekend.

The first game was against Irondale. The boys started out a bit slow but moved the ball well and played excellent defense. It didn't take long and we pulled away from them and got by with a fairly convincing victory. Cole had a great game. He played super defense and helped lead the offense at point guard. He has been switching from point guard to wing depending on which other players are in the game. He's been one of the more versatile players on the team in the fact that he can play so many positions and knows the responsibilities of each spot.

The boys had to wait around for more than hour before the next game. They seemed to have fun sitting around visiting, eating and watching some other games.

The second game was against St. Michael which had also won their first game by a large margin. Our boys came out a bit flat again and the game was neck and neck all through the first quarter. But midway through the second quarter we started to break down and got down by 14 points at the half.

At half time the coach talked to them and we all tried to give them the don't quit, you can do it speech. It worked! They came out blazing and determined. They shut down the opposition and tied the game up in the middle of the third quarter. It again was a tight contest and by the start of the fourth quarter we were down one basket. Cole had been playing his heart out. He had been in the game the entire time. A couple of our main players got into foul trouble and had to sit a majority of the second and third quarters. By the time the fourth quarter was in progress you could tell he was bushed. But he kept on fighting and doing his best. The game went back and forth for most of the fourth quarter until St Michaels gained a small four point lead with only a minute and a half left. Our kids would not give up. They battled and fought to cut the lead to two with only 30 ticks on the clock. After a near steal and a subsequent "foul" St. Michaels was at the line with only 19 seconds left. This last foul was on our point guard and lead scorer and it was his fifth and final foul. The St M's player knocked down the first shot then misfired on the second. One of our Ranger players snagged the board and got the outlet to a guard who dribbled past half court when Coach called a quick time out with only 10 seconds left. We could all see them devising a play and hoped it would be enough to send the game into overtime. I could see the Coach talking and pointing to Cole and I had a feeling with our other point guard out of the game that Cole was the one who was going to take the last shot, a 3 pointer. (Gulp!) Once the huddle broke our players lined up in formation and I saw the pick forming for Cole to get open but it was supposed to leave him open on the top. Someone jumped the pick and Cole had to pop out on the wing. He got the ball and turned, squared and fired. The ball arced smoothly through the air and was descending directly towards the rim then it skipped off the rim just barely missing. Another Ranger player grabbed the rebound and alertly kicked it out past the arc where we got one last heave to tie the game. But the ball clanked off the back iron and time ran out.

Our Ranger team made a courageous comeback and nearly put the game into overtime. So the next game up will be for 3rd place on Sunday.

Well Sunday came and the team was pumped to try to get some more hardware. We arrived at the gym and the kids started to stretch out. We were matched up against the home team, Coon Rapids. The game started and soon after we knew it was going to be a long game. The refs were very quick on the whistle and took the aggressiveness right out of our players. Within a few minutes our Coach was hit with a technical foul. It was a shocking call. The ref had seems very aggressive in his calls and this T just punctuated that fact. The team did the best they could to keep up but many of our players got into early foul trouble. They also had a lot of trouble with the press. Coon Rapids played a zone press (which our kids had not seen before). By the end of the first half, Coon Rapids had an 11 point lead.

A quick pep talk and drink of water and the kids were ready to go. Unfortunately so were the refs. The second half the Rangers handled the press much better and cut into the lead for a while but the continued imbalance of calls against us put us back into a hole. By the end of the game, two players had fouled out and a couple had four. The kids only lost by 12 points (meaning they only lost the second half by one point which is awesome considering the amount of freethrows Coon Rapids was shooting). The total fouls for each team was 27 to 7! Nearly a 4:1 ratio! That is ridiculous. It was a very obvious bias, the Rangers would get called on a touch foul or a reach in and then on the other end we would get mauled and lose the ball with no call. It was very frustrating for everyone, especially the kids.

All the parents and Coaches were very proud of the kids and how they held their composure. They learned that they must overcome obstacles like that sometimes and that they have no control over the refs. We tried to stress that they can only control their actions and attitude.
Hopefully they will continue to improve and get a tournament championship soon.

Kiddy Survey Part Two

Recently my wife DeAnn sat down with each of the little ones and asked them questions about themselves. Their likes and dislikes, favorite things to do and so on. It was very revealing and interesting to see hear what they had to say. I am going to outline some of the questions/answers for Jacob.

Question:What are your favorite foods?
Jacob: Pizza, Peas, Orange Noodles (Mac and Cheese), Brownies, PBJ, and Cookies


Question:
What are your favorite drinks?
Jacob: Hot chocolate milk (in the morning), flavored water, and apple juice


Question: What are your favorite shows?
Jacob:Go Diego Go, Max and Ruby, Wow Wow Wubzy, and Hannah Montana


Question:
What are your favorite carb free snacks?
Jacob: Cucumbers with Ranch dressing


Question:
What are your favorite games?
Jacob: Tic Tac Toe game, Elefun (catching butterflies out of an elephants trunk), Scooby Doo matching, and Diego matching


Question: What are some foods you don't like?
Jacob: Celery and the seed on the banana (the end piece by the stem)


Question:
What are you afraid of?
Jacob: Monsters, Ghosts, Pickle people, the Dark, and Storms


Question: What are your favorite bedtime books/stories?
Jacob: Dora the Explorer books


Question:
What are some of your favorite bedtime snuggly things?
Jacob: Barney, Comfy (blanket), Silky (blanket), and little white pillow


Question:
What are your favorite sports?
Jacob: Basketball, Soccer, Football, and Hockey ("but I never played it before")


Question: What are your favorite colors?
Jacob: Blue


Question: Who are your favorite babysitters?
Jacob: Jill ("because she's nice") and Auntie ("Anna's Mom")


Question:
What are your favorite things to do with Cole?
Jacob: Play racing games and play basketball

Question: What are your favorite things to do with Mom?
Jacob: Hug Mom, Kiss Mom, Help cook, and go to playground

Question: What are your favorite things to do with Dad?
Jacob: Go to the park, Play basketball and football, Go fishing, Wrestle, and Go treasure hunting (geocaching)


Question: What do you want for Christmas?
Jacob: Racecar with remote control


Question:
What do you thank God for?
Jacob: Daddy, Mommy, Kenny, Coley and Myself


Jacob was then asked to draw a picture of himself.







Kiddy Survey Part One

Recently my wife DeAnn sat down with each of the little ones and asked them questions about themselves. Their likes and dislikes, favorite things to do and so on. It was very revealing and interesting to see hear what they had to say. I am going to outline some of the questions/answers for Kennedy.

Question:What are your favorite foods?
Kennedy: Cheese Pizza, Dessert Pizza, breadsticks, Brownies, PBJ, Yogurt drinks and Cookies


Question:
What are your favorite drinks?
Kennedy: Hot chocolate milk (with marshmallows), Grape juice, Strawberry flavored water, apple juice, and orange soda (had once at school Halloween party)


Question: What are your favorite shows?
Kennedy: Hannah Montana, High School Musical, and Camp Rock


Question:
What are your favorite carb free snacks?
Kennedy: Cheese stick, Cucumbers with Ranch dressing, and Peanut Butter


Question:
What are your favorite games?
Kennedy: Kerplunk, Elefun (catching butterflies out of an elephants trunk), Scooby Doo matching, and Princess matching


Question: What are some foods you don't like?
Kennedy: Peas, Celery, Green beans, and the seed on the banana (the end piece by the stem)


Question:
What are you afraid of?
Kennedy: Monsters, Ghosts, Pickle people, the Dark, and Storms


Question: What are your favorite bedtime books/stories?
Kennedy: Hannah Montana magazine, Sleeping Beauty, and Cinderella


Question:
What are some of your favorite bedtime snuggly things?
Kennedy: Kitty, Barney, Berry Bear, Ganelli (stuffed gorilla), and Bear blanket (tied fleace)


Question:
What are your favorite sports?
Kennedy: Soccer, Basketball, Dance, and Gymnastics


Question: What are your favorite colors?
Kennedy: Pink, Purple, Magenta, Turquoise, and Red


Question: Who are your favorite babysitters?
Kennedy: Jill and Auntie


Question:
What are your favorite things to do with Cole?
Kennedy: Listen to music (especially the Jonas Brothers)


Question: What are your favorite things to do with Mom?
Kennedy: Go to the playground, Go to the beach, Play fashion show, watch TV, and have Mommy lay with me at bed


Question: What are your favorite things to do with Dad?
Kennedy: Go camping in the tent, Wrestle, Go treasure hunting (geocaching), and Play football


Question: What do you want for Christmas?
Kennedy: Guitar, High School Musical Make Up Set, and Hannah Montana Guitar Hero


Question:
What do you thank God for?
Kennedy: Coley, Mom, Jakey, Daddy, Myself, God, Jesus and a warm house


Kennedy was then asked to draw a picture of herself.







Monday, November 17, 2008

World Diabetes Day


The following blog post is an excerpt from an email that my wife, DeAnn, sent out to friends and family.

November 14, 2008 was World Diabetes Day. I am writing this just to ask people to remember the struggles that all people with diabetes live with on a day to day basis. I am especially referring to people who have Type I Diabetes. Most of you know about diabetes because of Kennedy's diagnosis last summer at age four. We have lived with diabetes for almost a year and a half. It's something that you live with 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year. You never get a break from it and you never stop thinking about it because your life revolves around it.


Having Type I Diabetes means that the part of Kennedy's pancreas that makes insulin does not work. This is the difference between Type I and Type II Diabetes. Kennedy makes no insulin at all which all people need to stay alive. Some people ask us if she will outgrow diabetes which is unfortunately not possible. She does not make insulin, and she never will. Also, no amount of exercise or diet restrictions will ever change the fact that she needs multiple insulin injections every day in order to stay alive. No one knows why a person gets Type I Diabetes. There is no cure. Insulin is not a cure. It is a means to stay alive.


We are grateful to have an insulin pump for Kennedy so she is able to receive insulin through a tiny miniature tube that is inserted under her skin. Instead of receiving about six shots per day which is the amount she averaged before using the insulin pump, we now insert a small needle attached with a tube under her skin every other day. Thanks to technology, she only endures one significant poke (insertion of the tube) every other day. The insulin is then administered through the tube with no pain. She receives insulin every hour on the hour in addition to all mealtimes and snack times. She receives about 30 different insulin doses through her pump every single day.


Kennedy still endures an average of eight finger pokes every day to check her blood sugar (sometimes more if her blood sugar is too high or too low). Rob and I continue to set our alarm every single night to check Kennedy's blood sugar during the middle of the night (1-2 times each night). If her blood sugar would drop too low during the night, it could result in brain damage, coma or death. Too high of a blood sugar is also dangerous and causes horrible, devastating complications such as kidney failure and blindness. Since Kennedy was diagnosed, I have not slept through the night in nearly a year and a half. A good night's rest is appealing, but the risk of not checking Kennedy's blood sugar level is too great.



Our family will be participating in the JDRF (Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation) Walk-to-Cure Diabetes event on January 24, 2009. We participated in this event last year and our team raised $1,200. An estimated 18,000 people participated last year. It was shoulder-to-shoulder at times. So many teams had their matching t-shirts on holding signs united in fighting for a cure. It was a very emotional and uplifting experience.


This email is a reminder of World Diabetes Day and a request to ask for help in supporting research to find a cure for diabetes. If you are able to donate to Kennedy's Team we would be deeply grateful and so appreciative. You can donate on-line or mail us a check written out to JDRF which we will present at the walk event in January. To learn more information or to donate on-line please go to Kennedy's Fundraising page at the following link:


http://walk.jdrf.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=extranet.personalpage&confirmid=87284412



Thank you,


DeAnn, Rob and Kennedy Mayer

Monday, November 10, 2008

Relaxing Weekend

I spent part of the week in South Dakota and the other in Iowa. I snapped a quick picture of the sunset on my way to Iowa midweek. It was much more beautiful than the camera on my cellphone captured. It was one of the last really nice days before the weather started to change. Once I got to Iowa the rain started and then the snow. After working out of town the entire week I was ready to head home and spend some time with my family.


While I was away we received delivery of Kennedy's new bed. She needed a little bit bigger bed and also got some needed storage under it. In turn Jake got Kennedy's "Big Boy" bed. This was the deal since he started wearing big boy underwear (its been a while now but we had to wait for delivery). I got home late on Friday but the kids were so excited to show me their new bedrooms (beds, bedding, etc) that they waited up with anticipation. It was really cute to see their faces as they showed off their rooms. I had to wait in the hallway with DeAnn (who worked tirelessly moving all the furniture around and clearing out the little kid clutter) until the grand reveal. With eyes closed and a tiny hand held escort I entered each room. Squeals of delight, excitement and pride filled the rooms. They were so proud! Each one had taken an active role in reinventing their room.

Kennedy's room has the Hannah Montana motiffe replacing the Disney princesses. She has a beautiful white bed with matching desk. The desk has already seen so much use. She loves to sit at her new, organized desk and draw pictures. She is quite the artist. The room is also accented with lots of pink accessories. She truley enjoys her new room and takes care to make her bed and have everything in its place (so far).

Jake's room didn't get the biggest overhaul but was significant in his eyes. He got a "big boy" bed to replace his toddler bed. It has an awesome sports themed bedspread. He is all about the sports! De also accented his room with sports related accessories. Jake is very proud of his new room and is quite comfy in his new bed. He is so cute when he is cuddled under his new blanket.


We spent Saturday morning getting our Christmas pictures done. The kids were great. It is amazing how much easier it is when the kids get a little older. De set it all up and picked out some really cute clothes for the kids. Of course, Mom and Dad just had to blend in. After getting back home and changing we decided to run out to look at toys in order to get ideas for the kid's Christmas gift. I convinced everyone to go to the new Fleet Farm, this way I could check out the fishing gear also. We spend an hour there and the kids had a good time. They had a better toy selection than I thought. Afterward we went to a few more stores then grabbed a bite to eat at Applebees. It was very enjoyable to just spend time together as a family. By the time we finished eating I thought everyone would be exhausted but they all decided to go to Michaels (Kennedy's eyes about popped out of her head when she saw all the markers, paints, paper, crafts, etc!). Cole did a pretty good job of tagging along. This really wasn't up his alley and he kept lobbying for us to make the trip over to Guitar Center so he could drool over the electric guitars. But the time just slipped away from us and it was getting late. We headed home and got everyone ready for bed. We were all exhausted.

Sunday came and it was time to catch up on house work and rest. We spent the day watching some football (mostly me) and catching up on chores before the busy week started again. De and I stayed busy most of the day while the kids played together. Cole went to a new friends house for the day.

Even though we spend most of Saturday running around the work/rest of Sunday helped make the weekend very enjoyable.